Love today moves fast! Way too fast! We swipe, scroll, and text between tasks. We’re constantly connected, yet often missing true connection. Somewhere between the instant replies and curated posts, we lost the kind of love that lingers. The kind that made your heart skip a beat when the phone rang. The kind that smelled like summer air, old records, and someone’s cologne on your favourite jumper. The romance of the 60s and 70s.

Because in the 60s and 70s, love wasn’t a performance, it was a presence. Romance took its time. It unfolded through shared silences, slow walks, and the electricity of a glance across the room. It was more about feeling than flaunting, more soul than spectacle. It was magic, and we’re here to bring it back.

In this post, we’re taking a nostalgic stroll through time to rediscover what romance was really like in the 60s and 70s, and why that tender, intentional love still holds so much meaning in today’s fast-paced, digital world.

1. Handwritten Love Letters & Vinyl Mixtapes

Before text messages and dating apps, people wrote letters. Like actual love letters! Ink on paper, heart on sleeve. Every word carried emotion. Every envelope held time and intention. These weren’t just notes… they were moments, captured in cursive. Letters were sprayed with perfume, sealed with a kiss, and sometimes left waiting on pillows or slipped into coat pockets. They were saved in shoeboxes, reread a hundred times, and cherished forever.

And then there were the mixtapes. Or better yet, vinyl love compilations. You’d spend hours sitting cross-legged on the floor, flipping through records, carefully choosing songs that spoke the words your heart couldn’t. From Marvin Gaye to The Beatles, every track had meaning. The pauses between songs? They were intentional, like silent heartbeats. Sharing music was sharing your soul. It said: This is how you make me feel. It was one of the most personal, beautiful gestures of the time, and honestly? It still is.

2. Old-School Dates & Real Connection

Back in the day, romance wasn’t just about dinner and a movie. It was about real, unscripted moments. Couples wandered through record stores hand-in-hand, shared milkshakes at diners, took slow walks under streetlamps, or cozied up at the drive-in. Windows rolled down, stars overhead, and not a single phone in sight. There were no distractions. Just two people getting to know each other! One look, one laugh, one honest moment at a time.

Retro dating culture was rooted in presence and intention. A flower picked from a neighbour’s garden. A surprise knock at the door just to say hi. A handwritten note slipped into a coat pocket. A warm hand resting quietly on another during a slow song. These small gestures weren’t grand, but they made love feel safe, deep, and beautifully big.

3. Dancing Was Its Own Love Language

In the 60s and 70s, dancing wasn’t just for parties, it was a language of love. It said what words sometimes couldn’t. Whether it was under shimmering disco balls, barefoot on the grass at a music festival, or swaying slowly in a sunlit kitchen, dancing was a shared experience of presence and feeling.

It didn’t matter if the steps were smooth or silly. What mattered was the connection. A slow turn. A smile mid-spin. Fingers interlaced as hips moved in rhythm. Dancing back then meant: I see you. I feel you. I’m here, in this moment, with you. No phones. No filters. Just two souls, moving to the same beat. There was something deeply intimate about it. Something free, joyful, and wildly romantic. Because when the music played, you didn’t need to say a thing.

4. Love Was a Radical Act

The late 60s and early 70s were full of political tension, war, and cultural change. But in the middle of it all, love became a quiet revolution. To choose softness in a hard world, to open your heart when everything felt divided. Now that was an act of courage!

The counterculture movement embraced love in all its forms. It celebrated interracial love, same-sex relationships, and non-traditional partnerships. Many of which were still taboo in mainstream society. People loved freely, defiantly, beautifully. They kissed on sidewalks and held hands at protests. They whispered “I love you” like it was a promise to keep going. Because back then, to love deeply and authentically was a way of resisting the status quo. It was more than romance. It was a statement. Peace over war. Unity over division. Love over fear.

5. What We Can Learn from 60s and 70s Romance

While the world has changed, the most beautiful love lessons from the flower-power years are still as golden as ever. Here’s what that groovy, soulful era still whispers to us today:

🌼Slow down. Let love unfold like a vinyl record, one beautiful track at a time. Take your time getting to know someone. Don’t rush the magic.

🌼Be present. Look into their eyes. Really listen. Put the phone away and be fully there. Because that’s where real connection lives.

🌼Express your feelings. Say it out loud. Write it down. A simple handwritten note or a soft “I miss you” can mean more than a thousand emojis.

🌼Create rituals of love. Make a playlist that feels like your story. Dance in the kitchen with bare feet. Share slow mornings or go on an old-school picnic. These small rituals become the glue of great love.

🌼Celebrate real connection. The kind of love that lasts isn’t built on speed, it’s built on soul. It’s deep, warm and intentional. And it’s always worth the time.

Final Thoughts

Whether you’re a vintage soul or someone simply tired of fast love and fleeting moments, it’s worth looking back. The 60s and 70s weren’t perfect, but the way people loved? That part was pure magic. Slower, deeper, and full of soul. Let’s bring a little of that magic into today. Write the love letter and make the mixtape. Dance like it’s 1969. Whisper how you feel. Share your favourite song. Hold hands like it means something. Because in a world that’s constantly rushing, choosing love with intention is the most radical, beautiful thing we can do.

And in the end, all we really need is love.🧡 

Peace and Love ✌🏽

Angie

🌼Image Credits🌼

All photos used in this post are sourced with love from Wikimedia Commons and are believed to be in the public domain or shared under Creative Commons licenses. Peace, love, and gratitude to the photographers, activists, and groovy souls who helped capture the spirit of a revolutionary era. ✌🏽✨